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Getting a family off the street only works if they stay housed. Humble Design furnishes their empty spaces with care and makes it a home, where the national return-to-homelessness rate hovers near 50%, nearly all of their families are still home a year later.

Key Takeaways
  • Close to 9,000 people in San Diego have no home, and most people experiencing homelessness are moms and kids coming off a very bad year.
  • Humble Design started when the founder learned her own friend had spent the night in a shelter with her kids, after a $25 rent hike had cost the family their home and everything they owned.
  • Getting housed is not the finish line. Nationally, about half of families return to homelessness within 12 months.
  • 98 to 99% of the families Humble Design furnishes are still in that same home a year later.
  • A furnished home is the difference between just existing somewhere and actually living there.
Story Summary

Home, the film begins, is a place that's safe, a place you want to come back to every day, a sanctuary from a hectic and sometimes cruel world. In San Diego, close to 9,000 people don't have one.

The film tells the story of Humble Design, which began when its founder learned that her own friend had spent the night in a homeless shelter with her children. A $25 rent hike had cost the family their home, and everything they owned went to the curb. They moved into an empty house with two bags of clothing. Furnishing that house, with love and care, became the model for everything after. The need it answers is specific. Nationally, about half of families return to homelessness within a year of being housed. Among families whose homes Humble Design furnishes, 98 to 99% are still there a year later.

The family at the film's center is Mariah's, a medical assistant, mother of four, in recovery, who found Humble Design through her Alpha Project case manager after years of raising her children in a shelter room. The film ends with her kids excited about rooms of their own, a house that finally has what makes a place worth fighting to keep.

In many ways, this film inspired my decision to create the One Good Story Project.

It was actually shot before the project was even conceived. I was beginning to feel there was something more than just making films and videos that convinced people to buy things they generally didn’t need. I began to think possibly we needed, "I needed," a reset. A way to see the good in the world and inspire others to do the same.

It was during the COVID lockdown. Business was slow, so we decided to take this project on to keep busy.

The thing I love about doing these films is that every time I shoot one, I learn so much about the world and people’s lives, things I, and most of us, never had a clue about.

Now, for my own selfish purposes, I am obsessed with telling these stories of humanity's better angels. Each one we do, I learn a little more and grow just a tiny bit more than before I started on the project. It is my deepest hope these stories inspire you to go do something that makes the world just a little better. Go out and make your own One Good Story!

Join the Project at https://OneGoodStoryProject.com

Learn more about Humble Design at https://www.humbledesign.org/

Find out the story behind this story at https://youtu.be/8mo1rr1AcBQ

 

Transcript
This journey with Humble has [music] made me think a lot about the concept of home. And I've come to believe that home is [music] a place that's safe. It's a place that you want to come back to every day and a place that you want to raise your [music] children. It really becomes your sanctuary from a hectic and sometimes cruel world. If you're very [music] lucky, someday home is where you'll be surrounded by your loved ones when you take your last breath. It's a place where you find all your joy, your happy moments, your [music] sad moments, your together moments, your planning moments. Home is not just a place to exist, but it's a place to live and [music] thrive. And in San Diego, there are close to 9,000 people who do not have that home. They're just like you and [music] I and they don't have that safe place to call a home. My name is Treger Strasberg. I am the founder of Humble Design. I have been at it for 11 oh 12 years. Yeah, 12 years. So, our origin story is how I changed my vision on homelessness. I moved to Detroit and I became friends with a woman and we would go out for coffee and one day we were going out for coffee and she was not doing any of the talking which is unusual. I said, "Krista, what what's going on?" And she said, "Well, my children and I spent the night in the homeless shelter last night and we didn't get much sleep." And immediately I thought, "Oh, she's volunteering or she's, you know, there with her kids for our service project." And it took me a minute to realize that she was homeless. Empathy turned into action in that moment. I was not going to let my friend be homeless. Like that seemed unfathomable to me. So my husband and my friends and I, we got together and tried to find her a home that she could afford. [music] And once we found her out of the home, I remember picking her up and driving her. And I got there and it never dawned on me that everything that she had ever owned, everything that she had ever collected, anything [music] that was passed down in her family was put to the curb when she couldn't afford the $25 rent [music] hike from her last place. They moved in with two bags of clothing, one for her and one [music] for her kids, and that was it. Everything else in her entire world was thrown away. And what I realized was is that we're all just [music] one paycheck away. and the person you're sitting across from, they could be homeless. I think the most important [music] thing about is understanding what homelessness is. You know that it is mostly moms and kids who have had a really bad year and are looking to start over. Humble is filling that one puzzle piece. Everybody [music] wants to get people housed. Get them housed. Get them housed. And that's the greatest thing. But if they don't stay housed, [music] that's not great. The social workers are disheartened. they see the same families and then generations of families coming back [music] through uh the system. When we talk about ending that cycle, we need to invest in things that truly stop that cycle from happening. I don't know if you've ever heard of Masle's hierarchy of needs. You know, it goes food and shelter and it just flips it all upside down. Before we address those very real needs, we need to address the fact that people are [music] suffering and you can't ignore that anymore. We're looking at solutions that are [music] not just band-aids. We're looking at solutions that are long-term systemic change. Humble Design is [music] a perfect example of that. If you look at the national statistic right now, the families who go back into homelessness within 12 months hovers around 50%. 98 to 99% of our [music] families after one year are in the same house that we furnished. They really care. They don't just come here to just do it to say, "Oh, I decorated a house." They really [music] take time. I gave them an idea of the type of woman I was and how I wanted my home to feel. And they took it and made it exactly the way we wanted it. We appreciate it. We love it. And it's still the same way. Everything that they put in here is the same way. You guys love it. Yeah. Yeah. Trust and believe in them. And if [music] you get a chance to deal with Humble Design, get with them. They the real deal. We are still doing each house with such love and tenderness and care like we did with my first friend that every one of our clients feels like my first client. [music] My name is Mariah. I am a medical uh assistant. Um I've lived here for about a year. I have four children altogether. I'm [music] in recovery as well. I came across Humble Design through my case manager through the Alpha Project. She [music] introduced me to their website. I didn't know how much they really impact people's lives and how they do so much good for people. I just want to [music] say I'm so proud of this mom to get where she's at from this struggle, taking the right steps, getting help, overcoming it, getting her education. Now [music] stability comes in and this one will grow up in a more stable environment and he knows where they're going to go. Hands in [music] humble on the ring. 1 2 3. [music] It was tough. It was really tough raising children in a shelter. We're confined to [music] a small bedroom. Very looking forward to having a living space. My kids having their own room. They're very excited for their own room. Me having my own room, the living room, a place [music] to gather, have family, and just have a home. [music] [music] [music] [music] [music] [music] [music] It's [music]

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Frequently Asked Questions

What does Humble Design do?

Humble Design furnishes empty homes for families leaving homelessness, with real care for how each family wants their home to feel. The idea is simple. When a house feels like a home, families stay.

Why do families return to homelessness after being housed?

Nationally, around 50% of families return to homelessness within 12 months of being housed. An empty house is hard to call home. Humble Design exists to close that gap, and 98 to 99% of its families are still in their home a year later.

How did Humble Design start?

The founder learned that her friend Krista and her kids had spent the night in a homeless shelter after a $25 rent increase cost them their home. Everything the family owned went to the curb. Finding and furnishing a home for that one friend became the model for the whole organization, now running 12 years.

How many people are homeless in San Diego?

The film puts it at close to 9,000 people. Most are mothers and children who have had a really bad year and are trying to start over.

Who does homelessness affect?

It could be virtually anyone across all walks of life, and as Humble Design's founder puts it, we are all just one paycheck away. The person sitting across from you could be homeless and you would not know it.

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